Self-love affirmations

You can want love without questioning your worth.

Self-love quotes, gentle reminders, and iPhone widgets for the moments you feel lonely, unchosen, or left behind.

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A student taking a quiet pause beside an open laptop in a library

You can be happy for them and still wish it were you.

Tiny next stepLet both feelings be here for a moment.

Feeling behind

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Quotes

Self-love quotes for when you feel left behind

Real Claire lines, each with one tiny next step.

Widgets

Self-love widgets for iPhone: what to put on your Home Screen

What the small and medium widgets actually show.

Lock Screen

How to add a self-love quote to your iPhone Lock Screen

The rectangular widget under the clock.

Reminders

How many self-love reminders to set on iPhone

The default is one a day, inside hours you choose.

Feeling behind

When you feel behind everyone else

Their milestone does not make your life late.

Feeling unwanted

When not being chosen feels like a verdict

One person's silence is not your worth.

Inside the app

Three places it meets you.

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Claire You can be happy for them and still wish it were you.
Claire Your life is still happening while you wait for love.
On your Lock Screen A different quote inside the hours you choose. The tiny step stays on the card.

Quotes

You can be happy for them and still wish it were you.
Your life is still happening while you wait for love.
Not being chosen by one person does not make you unworthy of being chosen.
In the quote library One quote. One tiny next step. No planner.
Not being chosen by one person does not make you unworthy of being chosen.
On your Home Screen The widget keeps the last quote you opened.

The library

Specific words for when you feel left behind.

A student taking a quiet pause beside an open laptop in a library

Not being chosen by one person does not make you unworthy of being chosen.

Tiny next stepStop rereading that thread for tonight.

Feeling unwanted
An open notebook, headphones, and a drink arranged for a focused work session

You can be happy for them and still wish it were you.

Tiny next stepLet both feelings be here for a moment.

Feeling behind
A person winding down beneath a blanket with a laptop nearby

Your life is still happening while you wait for love.

Tiny next stepChoose one small thing you want to do today.

Lonely tonight

What this isn't.

Three days free. Decide after that.

From November 3, 2026, US yearly pricing is $39.99 after a 3-day trial for eligible Apple IDs. Weekly is $6.99 with no trial. Subscription required.

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Before you download.

How many notifications will I get?

You choose from 1 to 12 a day, inside a start and end time. The default is one a day between 8:00am and 9:00pm, scheduled near the middle of that window. Change it in Profile under Notifications. iPhone can delay or quiet a notification. Claire does not read your calendar.

Can I save quotes for later?

Yes. Save a quote from its card, then open My favorites in Profile.

Can I choose the kinds of quotes I see?

Yes. Browse everything, or choose Hard on myself, Feeling behind, Feeling unwanted, Lonely tonight, or Comparing.

Does Claire include widgets?

Yes. With a trial or subscription, a small or medium Home Screen widget and a rectangular Lock Screen widget show the quote you last opened. Without one, the widget asks you to unlock Claire.

Is there an Android version?

Not yet. iPhone only for now.

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